Methods Of Conversing With Your Husband Hard Of Hearing

By Nancy Walker


Sometimes, we take for granted our ability to do normal things like speaking, hearing or seeing or even touching. Some people live very difficult lives and have to find ways of passing messages. Luckily, for people who do not hear, they can be taught how to communicate in sign language. However, there are other ways if a person did not always have this problem. Below are some of the effective methods to communicate to your husband hard of hearing.

Get the attention of the person before you begin to speak. For a person with hearing problems, it takes a lot of concentrating in order to follow a conversation. Therefore, tap them to show them that you want to talk to them and that way, they will not have a difficult time trying to understand what you will be talking about.

It is obvious that you cannot see in the dark. The same way, a person can sometimes not hear what you might be saying even if their listening aid is on. To make it easier for them, make sure you are always facing them when you speak so that they are able to read your lips. The hearing aid only makes the sound louder for them to hear not clearer.

Enunciate as much as you can and maintain a steady pace of talking. Enunciating makes it clearer to hear whatever is being said. The steady pace of speech gives the person a chance to read your lips and understand you. If you speak too fast they may not at all understand what you are saying while speaking too slow makes lip reading harder.

Pick your venue carefully. When you go to a noisy place, communication will be impossible. At home, make sure the music is off and things such as the Ac unit or fan are not loud. Otherwise, their concentration will be disrupted. The reaching out aid will actually make it worse by amplifying the noise. You should choose quite well-lit places.

When spending time with a group of people, do not make the person with the hearing problem feel excluded. You should be in a place that is well lit and put yourself in strategic positions where the person can be able to see each of you and read your lips. If the conversation involves them, take turns in speaking to avoid them getting confused.

You should be ready to repeat and or rephrase what you say. The person may not hear what you say on the first few tries but you should not tire of repeating whatever you are trying to say. If repeating does not work, try rephrasing the comment or question. Other words may be easier for the person to hear. You can also try spelling out the hard to hear the word.

You want the person to be comfortable around you. When you have a hard time understanding each other, you can look at the positive side and make fun of it. This will make you more comfortable with each other.




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